(Christie's, 20 Rockefeller Plaza, New York, NY 10019) (6pm) Harmony-Featuring performances from special guests including Tony nominee and Emmy Award winner Liz Callaway, Youth Pride Chorus and more! Event Website

(Duplex, 61 Christopher St, New York, NY 10014) (9:30pm-11:00pm) The Meeting* is a monthly comedy/variety show for homosexuals and their friends. A "gay" romp through politics, sexual and otherwise, social news, music, skits, and other important life changing information. Hosted by The Chairman of the Board, Justin Sayre. Make your reservations now. ($10 plus 2-drink minimum) ((212) 255-5438) the.meeting.wink@gmail.com Event Website

(McGinn Cazale Theatre, 2162 Broadway, Between 76th and 77th Streets, New York, NY 10024) (Tu - Sa 8:00PM Sa & Su 4PM) MazelTov Cocktail is the story of a Jewish woman stuck in a dead-end job as a celebrity's personal assistant, her cocaine addicted (and recently incarcerated) brother and the two neurotic parents who spawned them...But it's a comedy! ($45.00) (212-579-0528) mazeltovevents@gmail.com Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6 - 8:30pm) The Center is honored to present legendary director and actor Joe Mantello in conversation with Jesse Green New York Magazine, Editor at-Large. Mr. Mantello's directing credits include Pal Joey, November, The Ritz, Blackbird, The Odd Couple, Glengarry Glen Ross (Tony nomination), Laugh Whore, Assassins (Tony Award), Wicked, Take Me Out (Tony Award), Design for Living, Terrence McNally and Jake Heggie’s Dead Man Walking for the San Francisco Opera, The Vagina Monologues, bash, Another American: Asking and Telling, Love! Valour! Compassion! (Tony nomination), Proposals, The Mineola Twins, Corpus Christi, Mizlansky/Zilinsky,and Blue Window. Mr. Mantello also directed the film Love! Valour! Compassion! As an actor: Angels in America (Tony nomination) and The Baltimore Waltz. He is a recipient of Outer Critics Circle, Drama Desk, Lucille Lortel, Helen Hayes, Clarence Derwent, Obie and Joe A. Callaway awards. ($15; $35 VIP) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (7-9 PM) GET OUT OF THE HOUSE! MEET NEW FRIENDS! EXPLORE THE REGION'S BEAUTY! ENJOY A CHANGE OF SCENERY! Come and learn all about the terrific, year-round outdoor activities offered by SUNDANCE! Enjoy non-competitive hikes, ski trips, bike rides, adventure travel, canoe/kayak trips, camping/backpacking, social events, Fire island House, and loads more for every skill level, every week. Founded in 1980, Sundance is a nonprofit LGBT organization and most activities are FREE. The friendly Open House features food, drinks, colorful presentation, and info on many upcoming events. (FREE) (212-877-0026) communityrelations@sundanceoutdoor.org Event Website

(VLADA, 331 West 51st Street, New York, NY 10036) (8PM) We kick off Valentine’s week with fashion, comedy, drink specials, giveaways and much more! Celebrate the release of "Project Runway" Season Four designer Chris March’s new coffee table book “I Heart Chris March” with this not to be missed book signing at 8pm. Stick around for the return of one of the most recognized openly gay stand-up comics in the country. "Last Comic Standing" Season Six contestant Adam Sank returns home to New York with his brand new show “Adam Sank: I’m with Cupid” at 10pm. Don’t miss your chance to have your photo taken with cupid, send that special someone a Valentine, or enter to win 2 VIP tickets to an upcoming performance Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS (BC/EFA) (Free!) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6pm) Kalup Linzy, is a video and performance artist who presents himself with a fabulous mix of southern culture, daytime soap opera, and shady black gay culture. In 2007, Linzy was named a Guggenheim Fellow and, that same year, New York Magazine named him one of the ten most promising artists. He has been reviewed in The New York Times, Art in America, and Artforum. His work is included in public collections of the Museum of Modern Art, Studio Museum in Harlem, and Whitney Museum of American Art. ($10) Event Website

(Cipriani 42nd Street, 110 East 42nd Street, New York, NY 10017) (6:30 PM) A black-tie gala benefit to honor those who have made outstanding efforts to raise awareness about the HIV/AIDS epidemic and to raise dollars for AIDS research. This year’s honorees: Yves Carcelle, Sir Elton John and David Furnish with a special tribute in memory of the late amfAR Trustee Natasha Richardson amfAR ($1,000) Event Website

(City Center Main Stage, 131 West 55th St, New York, NY 10019) (see website for schedule) New York’s annual flamenco celebration, now in its 10th year, features mesmerizing performances with renowned dancers and musicians direct from Andalucia, Spain! ($35) Event Website

(Paradise Factory Theater, 64 East 4th Street, Between Bowery & Second Avenue), New York, NY 10003) (8:00PM) A new play written and directed by Donysha Smith will make it’s World Premiere with a limited engagement. Inspired by the music of Stevie Wonder, ALL ABOUT LOVE offers a “fresh look at love” in an energetic, interactive, modern multi-media experience that combines live theater, film, music, dance and more into a single narrative piece about love in all of its fabulously unpredictable forms. Performance Schedule: February 11th, 12th, 13th, 18th, 19th, 20th at 8: The Fistula Foundation ($18.00) (877-358-8408) allaboutlovepr@gmail.com Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30pm) By partnering with the LGBT Center, the American Cancer Society hopes to bring information to the LGBT community on prevention, detection, the programs and services they have to offer through a Cancer Chats Series. Feb 11: "Quality of Life after Prostate and Rectal Cancer". Feb 17: "Prevention Through Diet: How Food and Nutrition Work to Keep You Healthy". Light refreshments and snacks will be served. (FREE) Myrna.Duarte@cancer.org Event Website

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(Radio City Music Hall, 1260 6th Ave, New York, NY 10020) (See website for schedule) The company's masterful choreography and graceful routines range from grand classical processions to ethnic and folk dances, with gorgeously costumed dancers moving in stunning synchronized patterns. Its themes are drawn from the pages of history as well as our world today. State-of-the-art backdrops conjure celestial palaces and pastoral vistas, while groundbreaking music from a full live orchestra combines the best of Chinese and Western composition. ($48+) Event Website

(LGBT Center, 208 W. 13th st., new york, NY 10011) (8 - 10pm) At this Speed-Dating event, meet lots of guys ages 30s & 40s one-on-one for a series of 3-minute dates, then get a free mingling period to meet anyone else in the room. Tell us which men you want a second date with, and minutes later you find out your matches. This is a great opportunity to meet guys for time-efficient face-to-face contact and see what kind of chemistry is there. It’s a lot of fun and could lead to meeting someone special! ($20) (212-971-1084) qwikdates@yahoo.com Event Website

(LGBT Center, 208 W. 13th st., new york, NY 10011) (8:00 PM) At this Speed-Dating event, meet lots of guys ages 20s & 30s one-on-one for a series of 3-minute dates, then get a free mingling period to meet anyone else in the room. Tell us which men you want a second date with, and minutes later you find out your matches. This is a great opportunity to meet guys for time-efficient face-to-face contact and see what kind of chemistry is there. It’s a lot of fun and could lead to meeting someone special! ($20) (212-971-1084) qwikdates@yahoo.com Event Website

(Magnet Theater, 254 West 29th Street, New York, NY 10001) (7PM) A pious Pope is framed for a crime he didn't commit. An evil tyrant's vaulting ambition threatens to cover the world in shadow. Who can you trust when the world turns its back on you? A militant army of robots? The ghost of legends from yesterday? Or that girl you blew off after prom all those years ago? ($10) Event Website

(Metropolitan Room, 34 West 22nd St, New York, NY 10010) (7PM) You may not know him by name, but you'll know many of his songs. From How Much Is That Doggie In The Window to People, Bob Merrill's vast amount of work spans the" simple to the sublime". Taylor presents songs from musicals such as Breakfast At Tiffany's, The Prince Of Grand Street, Hannah 1939, Prettybelle, New Girl In Town, Take Me Along, Sugar, The Red Shoes and Funny Girl. Specialty material for films, television shows,and club acts for singers including Doris Day, Sarah Vaughan, Eartha Kitt and Patti Page is also highlighted. ($20 plus 2 drink min/ $15 ALL professional orgs.) (212.206.0440) priestessnyc@aol.com Event Website

(Dance Manhattan Studios, 39 West 19th Street, 5th Floor, New York, NY 10011) (8 PM) Big Apple Ranch will party in pajamas for Valentine’s Day. This year’s Pajama Party Valentine’s Dance is a benefit for the Gotham Knights Rugby Football Club. So whatever your sleepwear, throw on your cowboy boots and two-step on down GOTHAM KNIGHTS RUGBY FOOTBALL CLUB ($10) Event Website

(Asbury Lanes, 209 4th Ave, Asbury Park, NJ 07712) (8pm) "Burlesque is back at the Asbury Lanes!" with The World Famous Pontani Sisters, recently named the #1 Burlesque attraction in the USA. Single ladies are invited to the offbeat Asbury Lanes for a VALENTINE'S SINGLES MINGLE, cocktails, noshes, optional bowling, DJ and the grand finale, a glamorous, mc-hosted Burlesque Show with modern trists and turns that has us churning in the aisles. The lounge/bar is very 50's and they make designer cocktails, too...such as a Godiva Chambord Martini! DJ "Jack the Ripper" will be spinning. You will fall in love with this place, which is sort of like a punk club, lounge bar, bowling alley all wrapped up in one! Reserve by Feb 11th. ($15) LezyBordon@aol.com Event Website

(City Winery, 155 Varick St (btw Spring & Vandam), New York City, NY 10013) (11AM - 2PM (seating from 10am)) Cupid meets Klezbos ~Scrumptious brunch, wonderful wine list, gracious & spacious atmosphere. Join Isle of Klezbos for a musical Valentine’s Day! ($10; kids under 13 FREE (& no brunch minimum)) (212-608-0555) shlomo@citywinery.com Event Website

(B. B. King Blues Club and Grill, 237 West 42nd St, New York, NY 10036) (6pm) BROADWAY BEARS is an auction featuring a cuddly chorus line of one-of-a-kind teddy bears, each meticulously outfitted in original, handmade costumes by Broadway’s leading costume designers and representing memorable characters from plays and musicals, past and present. The skill and imagination devoted to the creation of these coveted collectibles has been recognized worldwide, from The Museum of The City of New York – where 10 bear alumni reside as part of the permanent costume collection – to media acclaim as far away as England and Japan. Noted designers such as Bob Mackie have created original bears for these auctions. To benefit Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS. ($35; $150 VIP) (212.840.0770 x229) Event Website

(Sidewalk Cafe, 94 Avenue A, New York, NY 10009) (9 PM) Love Bites: A Valentine's Cabaret features an amazing line-up of talent including Ariel Aparicio (band), Brett Gleason (solo singer), cabaret singer Karmen Kluge, Suzanne Peebles (singer/cabaret/burlesque-ish), The Pendulum Swings (Jason Trachtenberg's new project - from the Trachtenberg Family Slideshow Players), Athena Reich with Glenn Firester on drums & chromatic harmonica, Hilary Schwartz (comic), Geoff Sobel & Lorraine Ferro of LoudLife and hosted by the hilarious Goddess Perlman (founder/star of Nice Jewish Girls Gone Bad). ($10 suggested donation) Event Website

(Chelsea Studios, 151 West 26th Street, 6th Floor, New York, NY 10011) (11AM) POP...SIX...SQUISH...UH-UH...CICERO...LIPSHITZ WHICH MERRY MURDERESS ARE YOU? Come find out at CELLBLOCK TANGO – THE WORKOUT! Learn custom choreography based on the film CHICAGO taught by Deidre Goodwin, who appeared in the film as June, “He ran into my knife 10 times” and just off her run as Co-Star Velma Kelly on Broadway. Each 90 minute class will begin with a warm-up designed to strengthen and introduce each participant to the vocabulary needed to learn the combination. Designed and broken down for everyone from the absolute beginner to the trained dancer will enjoy. Reservations are needed at www.broadwaybodies.com ($25 drop-in / $65 series) broadwaybodies@gmail.com Event Website

(Madison Square Garden, 4 Penn Plaza, New York, NY 10001) Established in 1877, The Westminster Kennel Club is America's oldest organization dedicated to the sport of purebred dogs. There is only one Westminster, and in its long and prestigious existence, just about every superlative imaginable has been used to describe the club, the show and its impact on the world of purebred dogs. Event Website

(Various Locations) The really alternative film festival is back for a sixth year. This film festival explores a wide variety of sexualities through documentary, comedy, porn, drama & more. Event Website

(JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Ave at 76th St, New York, NY 10023, 646-505-4444) (7PM) The amuse-bouche is a trendy hors d'oevre unlike any-other. It is one small taste of an extraordinary food. Chef Shaya demonstrates how you can easily and economically create these bite sized flavor sensations, just perfect for your next “Frugal French Dinner Party”! You’ll sip on Vino Francesca, an exciting twist on sangria while learning how to create tricolor endive cup salad, herbed breadstick twists, fromage fort,mouthwatering mushrooms with a panko crust, gnocchi Parisienne and savory southwestern smoked salmon tar tare. Event Website

(Merkin Concert Hall, 129 West 67th Street, New York, NY 10023) (8 PM) New York Festival Of Song and Kaufman Center present Metropolitan Opera singers Kate Lindsey and Joseph Kaiser, Chicago Lyric Opera soprano Dina Kuznetsova and pianist-hosts Steven Blier and Michael Barrett in a celebration of late 19th Century Romantic masters of song: Richard Strauss, Erich Korngold, etc. New York Festival Of Song "redefined the song recital with daring and dramatic programming (The New Yorker)." ($40 - 55, with group discounts.) (212-501-3330) tickets@kaufman-center.org Event Website

(LGBT Center, 208 W. 13th st., new york, NY 10011) (6:00 PM) Offering a summer share? Seeking a share? Meet your match and enjoy beverage bargains at the Center. Whatever your budget, find tempting offerings in every category -- quarter-share, half-share, full share. A share offers you a superior experience and the happy option of sharing meal costs. LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th Street, Manhattan (Share Seeker $15; Share Offeror $40) (212.620.7310) ector@gaycenter.org Event Website

(Madison Square Garden, 4 Penn Plaza, New York, NY 10001) (8pm) Two-time Emmy Award winner Kathy Griffin, a multifaceted performer with a rapid-fire wit, is coming to the WaMu Theater at Madison Square Garden. Legions of gay fans to follow. ($65) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6pm) Join author Robert Hofler who reads from his new book "Party Animals: A Hollywood Tale of Sex, Drugs and Rock n Roll Starring the Fabulous Allan Carr." Carr produced not only "Grease" but such seminal gay works as "La Cage aux Folles" on Broadway and the Village People's "Can't Stop the Music." Carr also produced the gayest Oscars ever, in 1989, when Rob Lowe infamously serenaded an actress in Snow White drag. Hofler will also present a slide show of photos from "Party Animals" and his biography of legendary agent Henry Willson, "The Man Who Invented Rock Hudson." Together, the two books comprise a history of gay Hollywood from 1933 to 1989. ($10) Event Website

(Fontana's, 105 Eldridge St. between Grand and Broome, New York, NY 10002) (8PM) Brett Gleason performs the unique fusion of his debut release, 'The Dissonance' with his full band at Fontana's. Set includes grammy nominated drummer Elliot Kavee, laptop artist Jana Fisher and upright bassist Sandra Fisher with Brett on the piano and lead vocals. ($7) (631 8068069) brettgleason@gmail.com Event Website

(The New Church, 114 East 35 Street, (Park & Lex), New York, NY 10016) (8 PM) A noted author of novels, poetry and plays, Terry Quinn is also an accomplished composer and lyricist. His works range in style from classic tone poem to musical theater and jazzy blues. He also collaborates frequently with composers Gary Fagin and Stephen Paulus. The excerpts for this program will be taken from: Legendary Deaths, A Distant Love: Songs of John and Abigail Adams, Rasputin, Hester Prynne at Death, Georgette’s Last Rehearsal and Mad for NewYorkTown. Chelsea Opera's production fund ($20 GA/$12 sr/sdt ($25/$15 at the door)) (212-260-1796) ChelseaOpera@aol.com Event Website

(45 Bleecker St Theatre, 45 Bleecker St, New York, NY 10012, 212-260-8250) (Feb. 19 & 20th @10:15pm and Feb. 21 @9:15pm) Jaleo’s FLAMENCO: PLUGGED AND UNPLUGGED is a sexy, innovative, exciting take on the traditional Spanish art form combining video, music and dance. Enjoy a complimentary glass of wine (provided by Tinto Fino: Vinos de Espana) and indulge in this new multimedia experience of abstract projections, haunting melodies and an intricate rhythm play between dancers and musicians. Run time: 70 Minutes. (Special Offer $20 in Advance (Reg. $24.50) & $25 Day of at the Door (Reg. $30)) (212.947.8844) Event Website

(New York Marriott at the Brooklyn Bridge, 333 Adams Street, Brooklyn, NY 11201) Directed by New York Times Crossword Puzzle Editor Will Shortz, this is the nation's oldest and largest crossword competition. Prizes are awarded in more than 20 categories, including a $5,000 grand prize. Evening games, guest speakers, and a wine and cheese reception allow solvers to meet each other in a relaxed and entertaining atmosphere. Event Website

("Michael's Apartment" 37 West 26th St, 12th Fl Loft Penthouse (b/w Sixth Ave & Broadway)) (7pm) THE BOYS IN THE BAND represents a major milestone in American gay history as the first play to openly portray the pleasures, miseries and private lives of gay men. THE BOYS IN THE BAND is set during Harold's 32nd birthday party. The tension-filled evening unravels the conflicted souls of its revelers, moving from a hilarious and spirited celebration to a heart-wrenching, and climactic end. THE BOYS IN THE BAND written by Mart Crowley and directed by Jack Cummings III originally played Off-Broadway in 1968. Transport Group mounted a 40th Anniversary celebration concert reading of the play in 2008, and will now mount a full production with previews starting February 12, 2010. Join the post-performance reception with the cast and creative team. Proceeds benefit Transport Group Theatre Company. ($95) Event Website

(West Chelsea Arts Building, 526 West 26th St. (10th & 11th Ave.), New York, NY 10001) (1:00 - 3:15 PM) Visit 7 exhibits of cutting-edge painting, sculpture, electronic media & photography, some by gay & lesbian artists and others of interest to a queer sensibility, led by a former gay studies professor and art critic for the New York Blade. While you’re there, socialize with arts-oriented gay men & lesbians! ($20) (212-946-1548) nygallerytours@yahoo.com Event Website

(Joe's Pub, 425 Lafayette, New York, NY 10003) (9:30PM & 11:30PM) In the grand tradition of Sonny & Cher, The Mandrell Sisters and Donny & Marie, Sherry Vine and Greg Scarnici star as Buddy and Barbara Everheart, the twisted, mad-cap hosts of this "televised" variety show featuring hysterical sketch comedy, musical performances, outrageous video parodies and special guest Bridget Everett and much more! ($15) (718 230 4656) gregscarnici@gmail.com Event Website

(The New School, 66 West 12th St, New York, NY 10011) (6PM) From ancient times to the modern era women have grappled with the critical decisions, personal and professional crises, and public and private conflicts that come with feminine power and authority. Through a discussion of their careers and the insights they have gained through their work, the speakers explore the obstacles to achievement that women continue to overcome and necessary steps for ensuring that women’s voices are heard. Panelists: Hon. Judith S. Kaye, Letty Cottin Pogrebin, Brooksley E. Born, Bevis Longstreth & Lisa Dierbeck. (FREE) Event Website

(Lincoln Center, 70 Lincoln Center Plaza, New York, NY 10023) (8pm) Never underestimate the power of a pronoun! With women singing men's songs and men singing women's -- and the original pronouns intact -- a song can mean something entirely new. Florence Henderson, who was an audience favorite at last year’s event, will serve as host. To benefit Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS. Event Website

(Pink (@ Blvd), 199 Bowery (at Spring St.), New York, NY 10002) (9 pm - midnight) The playground of the striptease gliterati has long been Sweet and Nasty Burlesque. These beautiful beasts bare all as Nasty Canasta brings her tassel-twirling night of LITTLE MONSTERS to the opulent yet intimate PINK to celebrate the decadence and voluptuousness of the Rhinestone Elite. Two sets of spectacular striptease starting at 10pm. Enjoy dinner, drinks and debauchery with some of NYC's biggest burlesque stars -y. ($10) tasty@sweetandnastyburlesque.com Event Website